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Thursday, November 12, 2009
Been long time not scratch my mind in this blog. Gosh i really2 miss my blog.
Well ok...like my title Solicitous to Please, what do you do or what did you do to make yourself happy ??
Me ? well maybe i can try with something small but very nice to please myself.
I like ICE CREAM :) yeah right ice cream can make me scream....Aaaarrrghhhh.....
Hahahaha...talking about ice cream, what ice cream do you like ? I don't know why i like Ice cream Potong which is only on Orchard road ?? hahahaha....yes i really like it. Maybe i have some kind of nice memory when the first i try this ice cream. Full of sweet kind memory hahahahaha.....
Ok another kind of Solicitous to please for me is.....hemmm....MASSAGE :))
Owww that's a great thing to please yourself. i can't describe it in words, only can feel it. yeahh....
How about you ? tell me your storry.....
What is your 'Solicitous to please' ???
Posted at 11/12/2009 by rivaldi
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Monday, June 25, 2007
Question: Why do I get so jealous when my partner talks to other people?
Answer: When you first connected with your partner and looked into their eyes, it felt like he or she was the only person in the room. As you get deeper into your relationship and call yourselves a couple, the realization hits you: You and your partner are not alone on this planet. There are others! Are they a threat?
When we are in a committed relationship, we assume the connection we have with each other will be strong enough to fend off outside threats. In some ways, this you-belong-to-me-and-I-belong-to-you mentality is sweet; it's the stuff of pop songs and poetry. But sometimes the intensity of that connection is too strong.
When one partner sees everyone whom his or her partner comes into contact with as a potential threat, it is "a sign that jealousy has taken hold"
a sign that jealousy has taken hold. Shakespeare called it "the green-eyed monster," and once it gets a hold of your relationship, it sinks its teeth in and can rip it apart.
What causes jealousy?
If you've got strong feelings of jealousy, it's probably a sign that you don't have enough trust in your partner that he or she is being faithful to you. That lack of trust may be prompted by one of four factors.
- You may feel insecure about your self-worth. In these cases, either you've been raised to believe, or some part of your inner self feels, that you just don't measure up. Because you don't love yourself, you can't believe that others would love you, so you live in fear that your partner's "true" feelings will be revealed and she will leave.
- You're prone to cheating on your partner -- maybe even have done so. Knowing what you're capable of, you project that behavior onto your partner.
- You and your partner haven't yet figured out how to
"establish safe boundaries within the relationship"
establish safe boundaries within the relationship. Having a tight bond is about building walls around your love with windows that allow others to be part of it -- not doors where competing lovers can walk right in and disrupt your home. Because you don't know what's permissible within the relationship and what's not, you're constantly on your toes.
- Your mate is cheating on you. Cheating doesn't have to include sex; it often has to do with making emotional connections to others outside the relationship. If your partner is sharing things about your private life with attractive members of the opposite sex, it robs a sense of intimacy from your relationship and leaves you feeling vulnerable.
Knowing the factors that lead to jealousy is an important first step to getting things fixed.
"Put your focus on building trust"
Put your focus on building trust. If you've got some growing up to do, therapy may help. Both of you have to learn how to set boundaries in the relationship. That requires respecting your mate's definition of limits of outside relationships from the start. Over time, as trust builds, you and your partner can redefine what feels safe for the relationship. After all, when you've got a great relationship, you want to share it with the world.
from : yahoo
Posted at 6/25/2007 by rivaldi
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Wednesday, May 02, 2007
Sometimes we don't know who would be my friend or would be my bestfriend.
Time has passed away, and she come to be my friend, she always follow where i am. Eventhough my close friend has opened about my self the trully, she still accepts me as her friend whoever i am.
We laughing together, we sad together, we out of town and out of country together. We do manything together.
She help me when i was in troubled and so did i. She so know about me.
Selvia her name.
Now i look sad in her eyes. I look something undone in her eyes.
Yes she is in trouble. Beetwen sad and unsure think.
I told her to set up her mind and pray to God. I told her to make a right decission.
She wanna cry, she said. I said be strong and take courages.
She say Thank You.
To my best friend that named Selvia , i care about you and i pray for you and God Bless You.
Friends is a familly that we choose.
Posted at 5/2/2007 by rivaldi
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Friday, April 27, 2007
Akan menjadi banyak yang bertanya kemana aku selama ini kalau tidak segera update blog ku ini lagi. Hehehehe..see ! Aku masih seperti yang dulu ! Lebih baik PD dari pada Minder :P
Hi...Hello
Many chapters of my life i had wrote in my book of life. Sory if i can't wrote those chapters in this blog. Sometimes men need spaces to be silence.
Chances, ways, happyness, sadness, love life, fighters, new friends, experiences et cetera. Those are can makes you rich of knowledges and rich of meanings of life. We can be wise, we can be patient, we can be taft.
Well, now and forward i try to fill this blog again as i can. Thanks for your courages for me to fill this blog again.
Regards
Posted at 4/27/2007 by rivaldi
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Thursday, October 26, 2006
The Bottom Line
Set a thing into motion and it will take care of itself. Let momentum do the work.
In Detail
Absolutely no one is standing in your way right now, so you are running out of excuses to do what you really want to do. As a matter of fact, you have quite an impressive crowd cheering you on. So make your plans today! Put aside all the 'emergency' issues you are dealing with, and take time to make headway on the big stuff. If you set aside just one hour to do what you need to do to set things into motion, the rest will take care of itself. Let momentum do all the work for you.
Posted at 10/26/2006 by rivaldi
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Tuesday, October 17, 2006
Bicara tentang perjodohan memang gak pernah abis. Hari gini masih ada ya di jodoh-jodohin. Hihihi...ya gitulah ternyata yang terjadi pada diriku. Entah apa yang ada di pikiran saudara-saudara dan teman-temanku tapi yang pasti adalah karena mereka melihat aku yang masih demen sendirian aja.
Alhasil dari dua wanita yang dijodohkan yang pertama beda umur 10 thn lebih tua dan yang satu beda umur lebih muda. Yang lebih tua sudah ada anak 1, smart lulusan sipil di Jerman dan seorang wanita karir, lincah, ulet dan mapan dalam kehidupan nya. Yang lebih muda seorang wanita polos yang sudah bekerja dengan sikapnya yang pendiam, yang hanya bicara bila ditanya saja dan baru mau meneruskan sekolahnya di perguruan tinggi.
Hmmm...Kalau gue pilih yg lebih tua pastinya lebih masuk kalau diliat dari sikapnya, sementara kalau yg lebih muda gue harus kebawelan sendiri banyak ngomong karena dia orangnya pendiam. Tapi sayangnya kalau gue jalan rendengan sama yg lebih tua udah kayak brondong dan tante, secara muka gue yg masih boyish ( yg baca gak boleh sirik ). Sementara kalau gue sama yg lebih muda pasti gue BT karena kayak jalan sama orang bisu.
Tapi lebih dari semua itu, mereka b2 bukan tipikal gue. Jadi bisa dibilang gue gak ngeklik sama mereka. Yaaaa.....buat temen aja lah.
Posted at 10/17/2006 by rivaldi
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Wednesday, August 23, 2006
Kemarin Aku Ulang Tahun.
Makasih Tuhan sudah Engkau tambahkan umurku.
AKu dapat beberapa kado dari teman2 baik ku, senang nya :)
Ini dia kado-kado aku :
1. Sneaker buatan X(sml)
2. GUESS Watch ( New Arrival )
3. Speaker Computer with Booster
4. Kemeja Contempo
5. Samsung SGH D-510
Aku senang - Aku senang :))
Makasih teman2 sudah memberikan aku kado yang bagus-bagus.
Tuhan kiranya berkati berlipat ganda. Amin.
Posted at 8/23/2006 by rivaldi
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Tuesday, August 15, 2006
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"S'il Suffisait D'aimer"
Je reve son visage, je decline son corps
Et puis je l'imagine habitant mon decor
J'aurais tant a lui dire si j'avais su parler
Comment lui faire lire au fond de mes pensees?
I dream of his face, I decline his body
And I imagine him living in my decor
I would have so much to tell him if I had known how to talk to him
How can I make him read my thoughts?
Mais comment font ces autres a qui tout reussit?
Qu'on me dise mes fautes, mes chimeres aussi
Moi j'offrirais mon ame, mon coeur et tout mon temps
Mais j'ai beau tout donner, tout n'est pas suffisant
But how do the others who succeed all the time?
Tell me my arrors, my dreams too
I would offer my soul, my heart and all my time
But even if I give it all, all is not enough
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer
Si l'on changeait les choses un peu, rien qu'en aimant donner
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer
Je ferais de ce monde un reve, une eternite
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
If we would change things a bit, only by loving giving away
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
I would do a dream of this world, an eternity
J'ai du sang dans mes songes, un petale seche
Quand des larmes me rongent que d'autres ont versees
La vie n'est pas etanche, mon ile est sous le vent
Les portes laissent entrer les cris meme en fermant
I have blood in my dreams, a dried petal
When tears are gnawing at me that others shed
Life isn't waterproof, my island is under the wind
Doors let shouts come in even when shutting them off
Dans un jardin l'enfant, sur un balcon des fleurs
Ma vie paisible ou j'entends battre tous les coeurs
Quand les nuages foncent, presages des malheurs
Quelles armes repondent aux pays de nos peurs?
In a garden the child, on a balcony flowers
My peaceful life where I can ear every heart beating
When the clouds are getting darker, sign of bad times
Which weapons reply to the countries of our fears?
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer
Si l'on changeait les choses un peu, rien qu'en aimant donner
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer`
Je ferais de ce monde un reve, une eternite
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
If we would change things a bit, only by loving giving away
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
I would do a dream of this world, an eternity
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer
Si l'on pouvait changer les choses et tout recommencer
S'il suffisait qu'on s'aime, s'il suffisait d'aimer
Nous ferions de ce reve un monde
S'il suffisait d'aimer
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
If we could change things and start all over
If loving each other was enough, if loving was enough
We would make a world of this drean
If loving was enough
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Posted at 8/15/2006 by rivaldi
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Saturday, August 05, 2006
Seminggu ini gue ngapain ya ?
# Jumat 04-08 ntn My Super Ex-Girlfriend di TA
Kagak niat pengen nonton kagak niat ke TA jg, di tlp temen minta temenin ke TA, eh tyt malah ntn jadinya. Lumayan lucu buat ilangin penat.
# Kamis 03-08 ngeles di CCF
Udah 2kali bertutrut-turut gw gak les, tanggal 7 ujian jadi mesti masuklah...
# Rabu 02-08 pulang ngantor pulang ntn dvd aja dikamar
Nowhere to go, capek juga, pengen juga lanjutin serie film korea hohohoho....
# Selasa 01-08 B'day Dinner lagi sama Lele hehehe ( ini rombongan anak 32M )
Kali ini gw ikutan rombongan anak 32M hehehe...lumayan 2x dinner b'day. Yg ini di Ikan Bakar Cianjur, ayam goreng nya dong uenak tenan, mending lo cobain deh....
# Senin 31-07 B'day Dinner Lele di Hard Rock lanjut ntn Ruth Sahanaya
Hickory Chicken Bar-b-que ( 1/2 ekor ayam barbeque ) enak banget, kagak seret gue makan nya. Virgin Pina Colada, Sundae Ice cream. Lanjut ntn Ruth. Wow kerennnn.....
# Minggu 30-07 Ke Dufan bareng Lele, Arnold, Evi
Yang ini udah direncanain lama, secara ada discount 20% dari Carrefour.Kicir2 it was amazed, made me pale. But i can scream loudly.
# Sabtu 29-07 Kondangan di Peninsula
Ceritanya ikut kondangan temen nya arnold, eh ternyata yg kawin adiknya kenalan gue juga, ya ampunnn....dunia sempit !
Posted at 8/5/2006 by rivaldi
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Friday, July 14, 2006
La Fete Nationale Du Français
Bon Annivesaire 14 Juilet 2006
Posted at 7/14/2006 by rivaldi
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